Smart Guys & Me

People have questioned my adoration of the male species with an IQ higher than mine and why it matters if they are smart as long as they are freakin' hot. So girls and boys-if you've been reading my blog at all, you'll understand my answer:

SEX

Yes, there it is.

Let's take it up a notch though and explain. In my quest for love (or something like it), I've dated a vast array of men...

The Cowboy (Spare me your ego trip the size of your belt buckle please...)
The Toker (I'm being nice. The thing is-drugs aren't ok, grow up for your daughter's sake.)
The Hunter (There is only so much talk of shooting that perfect 8 point elk that a girl can take)
The Musician (While extremely hot and 'talented', lacks...substance)
The Hippie (Make a decision already!)
The Single Dad (I can relate but...you need a life outside of your kid, for you...otherwise, it's unhealthy. Trust me.)

But, what it always comes back to is that I have the most enjoyable relationships with the Engineers/Accountants/Computer Programmers of the pool.

And do you know why?

Because these guys want to know how you 'work'. How it all fits together. They take the time to figure out what works and they usually find it! It's in their personalities-they usually don't have a choice but to just be inquisitive of the outcome.

Physicists, for example, have the ability to project one's internal visualization and experiences onto the external environment. They, then, apply the ideas of physics to reality.

Computer Programmers intensely concentrate on building instructions to coax a computer to do what it's built to do. He can concentrate for hours, often losing track of time to realize what he believes is an artistic creation.

Engineers are energetic and advocates of the direct approach. They are also usually free of neurotic and psychosomatic symptoms (which, in this city, is RARE).

Doctors are conscientiousness, creative, communicative and have a level of commitment that is rarely found in other professions. (that's 4 C's!!! can't argue with that, can you?)

Now think of all those personalities I just listed and bring it to the bedroom.

Got it?

Fantasy-land, right?

Of course, I know that there is more to a relationship than sex but, here's the deal:

If you're a girl who is independent, non-needy, enjoys other friendships and likes to have time to yourself also, it works out great because usually men with these personalities have very busy work lives too.
But...when you do come together you, at least, can have a better conversation than about what you saw on Fox News that day.

Wouldn't it be nice to have someone care about what makes you tick instead of how quickly they can get to the end result all the while throwing out some typical bedroom talk trash.
Whisper your explanation of the Quantum Entanglement to me and I'll offer to help you produce our own experimental predictions. ;)